Why Buying New Lingerie is Good for You

You just know when it is time to buy new lingerie.

• Maybe you just got a new partner.
• Maybe you want to re-kindle the flame with an old partner.
• Maybe you cleaned out your panty drawer and now have to wash out every other day.
• Maybe you have an important appointment that you want to feel especially powerful for.
• Heck, forget the partner: Wearing something pretty makes you feel good.

Whatever the reason, you deserve to treat yourself. Someone like your Mom, your husband or your kids will give you sensible cotton panties, so you should get something special for yourself.

What is your plan for buying such an indulgence? Will you head downtown to the little Lingerie boutique? Or to the department store at the mall? Maybe you will shop the Internet, with its many and varied Lingerie specialty shops. If you are armed with a little knowledge about your measurements, and a realistic view of your own body, you can get some great things at any of these places.

Do you go alone, or go with someone? With your partner, or your best girlfriend? Sharing the buying experience with someone you really love can be very titillating. But then again, who else besides your best friend will tell you your bottom is a bit wide for that dental floss g-string.

If you are feeling a bit down, will you pamper yourself with something sensuous and silky, or get your juices flowing with something racy and sexy? If you work a 9 to 5 office job, do you want something classy but comfortable, or do you want to have a sexy secret that the people who work around you would never guess? Imagine the look on your boss' face if they knew you had an open crotch bodystocking on underneath your business suit skirt.....

Whatever the reason, whatever the occasion, whatever the choices, taking a little bit of time to purchase an item that is specifically to make you feel good about yourself can make a world of difference. You don't always have to buy fine lingerie with someone else in mind. There will be plenty of time for that strappy leather teddy, or the lace underwire corset that make your partner crazy. Just take a couple minutes and buy something just because it makes YOU happy.

There are 2 things I suggest you always keep in mind.

First is a saying I saw a long time ago. It said, quite simply "If Momma ain't happy, ain't NOBODY happy". Taking care of others starts with taking care of yourself.

The other thing is this; Every day when you are getting dressed, remember you will eventually get undressed. And you don't always know who will be there when that happens, so DRESS to UNDRESS to IMPRESS.